Asperger Syndrome Grows Up
Recognizing Adults in Today's Challenging World

Roger N. Meyer
Aleta Root
Linda Newland
Copyright 2003, All Rights Reserved


Chapter I - Introduction
Official Criteria for Asperger Syndrome
Basic Characteristics
Impaired Social Relationship
Anger, frustration, and Dealing with Difficult Emotions
Aggression and "Behavior Problems"
Passivity, Non-Responsiveness and Anger
Navigating the Social Mine Field
Impaired Communications
-Impaired Theory of Mind with Processing Delays
-Unusual Speech
Expressive Speech Issues
-Stilted Speech
-Saying too Little
-Proving One's Point to Get it Right 
Impaired Make-Believe Play
-Parallel Play
-Repetitive and/or Age-inappropriate Play Activities
Peculiar Patterns of Intellectual Activities
Repetitive Phenomena of Rituals
-Comforting Issues

Chapter II - Commonly Associated Conditions

Chapter III - Traits by Age
Asperger Syndrome and Telling the Truth
The Good Side of Telling the Truth
"Good Withholding; Bad Withholding"
Self Abuse

Chapter IV - AS in the Family
A Challenge to US National Autism Organizations
Domestic Violence and Abuse
Dysfunction in AS Families in the Absence of Outright Violence
A Note about "Successful AS Families"
Both Parents on the Spectrum
Single Parenthood

Chapter V - Adult Diagnosis and the Aftermath
The Non-Curious and the Deniers
Connection between Self-Determination and Adult Employment

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AS Grows Up; Recognizing Adults in Today's Challenging World
Commonly Associated Conditions
Traits by Age
AS " in" the Family
Adult Diagnosis and the Aftermath

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"We each have our own way of living in the world, together we are like a symphony.
Some are the melody, some are the rhythm, some are the harmony
It all blends together, we are like a symphony, and each part is crucial.
We all contribute to the song of life."
...Sondra Williams

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